But I've always thought there was a correlation between the size of a guy's truck and the size of his dick. With the only exception being trucks that are really used for work, not for show. You can tell the difference.

My late brother used to say, in reference to guys who wear baseball caps or seed catalog caps (you'd have to be from farm country to know what I mean) that wearing a cap automatically dropped your IQ 40 points. I don't know if that says anything except that we're a snarky bunch of siblings.

The situation's never arisen for me, but I think my reaction would be -- not so much offended, but slightly squicked. My issue with a lot of colloquialisms for sexual anatomy is that they remind me so strongly of junior high, and so have a strong undertone of snickery-sniggery. On the other hand, more "formal" terms generally seem misplaced in an intimate context. This is just my idiosyncratic reaction, of course...

Cat, kitten, puss, vagina (ick), cunt (bigger ick),love hole, love canal, slit, slot, gash (oh, too ick for words)...any more I'm missing? Oh yeah, chocha, coochie, cooch.

I was a sex worker for a long time (sold porn and did phone sex) and pussy was definitely THE word. I've never been offended by it and use it pretty regularly. I have a HUGE problem with the word cunt, though; even though Inga Muscio wrote that great book a few years back reclaiming cunt I've never been able to hear it without cringing. In fact I have a super-radical feminist friend who will use the word, loudly, in public, and I always want to very un-pc-ishly tell her to "hush! People will hear you!"

Then I feel horrible feminist guilt for not loving the word cunt. LOL.

I guess my point is what did this friend want her b/f to call "it"? Her vagina? How romantic and sexy is that? "Please darling, allow me to put my penis inside of your vagina so that we may both feel pleasure"? Now THAT'S clinical terminology. Pussy is just slang.

I just felt that the title:
Do men who post Breast and Buttocks pics have small penises... a bit too clinical. Also writing "penis" after writing Tits and Ass was "uneven"... but having said that I am not in the habit of saying pussy.

Do men who post Breast and Buttocks pics have small penises... a bit too clinical.

Are these the words you want to hear in an intimate moment?

Of what DO we call it? If I'm giving a speech about penises (in some parallel universe)I'm going to call them penises, not dicks or cocks or rock-hard battering rams, lol. Same with vaginas. But in an intimate situation the rules are looser. I've had to stifle giggles when doing some phone sex scenario with a guy and he referred to his dick as his "johnson" or some other such nonsense, but again these are intimate situations. Using the words "vagina" or "penis" just doesn't seem appropriate.

But I would add that I don't think white colar men obstain from that behavior because they are so "Evolved," I think that their style of "King of the Hill" is just different.

There is another category of SPM (Small Penis Men) who seem to get more pleasure out of making the women around them uncomfortable than being sexually turned on by images themselves. It is obvious that they don't like women period.

Ask men to send in photos of their hands and answer a few questions about their work environment.

And thank you for posting.

but I'd still like to know what people call "those parts" during intimate conversations. This is my definition of a woman's issue, and I'm not going to let it go away! HEHE.

Just don't use the word "nards". I hate that word.

I prefer to talk to my lover, not to her organs.

"Oh honey, touch my liver!"

Bleah.

It's designed to advertise dominance, to make people either uncomfortable and encourage them to go away, or to encourage "in group" banter for those who are of the same mindset.

ABSOLUTELY!!! Which is why there are female enablers who are in the "in group" because like rape this is a power play not a sexual turn on.

This is how they divide and conquer and shut people up who dissent.

It's a great word and it's sexy for me. I can see it isn't for everyone, but I like it. I also have a band t-shirt for a group called the Kowalskis (NYC) who have Pussy rules! on the front. it's shock value to take the word out of the bedroom and bring it to the streets.

Cunt is another favorite word, but that's strictly for shock value. There's a great punk rock song from the late 70's called So What! (Anti-Nowhere League) that was banned for being completely disgusting and among other things, used the word "cunt" liberally. Now, every Monday night in NYC, I go to a thing called Punk/Metal karaoke and you sing in front of a live band. I love So What, but I really love it when a chick sings it b/c there is nothing more liberating to own a song that goes: I fucked a sheep, I fucked a goat, I rammed my cock right down it's throat.

It's all tongue in cheek, of course.

Now, for the small cock remarks. I hate that. Unless you can see right down the pants of any misogynist, you don't know if they have a small cock. Small self-esteem, sure. But using the phrase "small cock" is deprecating in a way that earn feminists a bad name. How much would you like it if you objected to some t&A pinup and the guy told you you were just jealous b/c you had small tits or was frigid?

I once saw a gyno in Queens who had a pic up of Sig Freud with the illustration for "what's on a man's mind" with a line drawing of a naked woman going down his profile. I didn't see it until my legs were in the stirrups and the speculum inside me, which always makes me feel vulnerable. After, when I sat up, I objected, telling him that that picture had NO place whatsoever in that setting. he told me some people find it funny. It was a OB/GYN for chrissake! Maybe some women did nervously as the doc has certain power, but it fucking had no place.

I shouldn't have paid.

The truth will set you free. But first, it will piss you off.

You have to remember that women, when being together as women, love to diss men's all-important penises. And that's cool, as long as when we actually see/feel/fuck/suck one we make sure to be shocked at JUST HOW HUGE IT IS!

As per comparing small dick jokes to a guy saying we're frigid or have small tits, I'm not sure that women's sexual identity--indeed female identity--is bound up in her breast size the way men are by their dick size. I mean sure, women (some) obsess about breast size, but that's often in reaction to male-dominated culture also obsessing about breast size. The male obsession with dick size is directly related to how much of a male he really is, in the primitive, chest-beating, motor-revving tradition.

There are, on the other hand, men who get their kicks out of being mocked and humiliated by women telling them how tiny their dicks are. So go figure.