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Sex Offender Registry Goes Nationala link recommended by DreamOfPeace on July 22, 2005 - 9:32am
For many states an online Sex Offender Registry has been around for a while. We have only had one here in California for two years. Now it seems that the Sex Offender Registry is going National. As a parent I am grateful for easy access to this information - I want to know if my children are in danger taking a certain route to the drug store or even playing in the front yard - and also for the Amber Alerts, but sometimes a little voice in me questions the wisdom of Vigilante justice...which I think this encourages. All mammals are protective of their young, and none more viciously than the most vicious animal on earth - Humans. Who among us can say that they would behave reasonably when confronted with a "known sex offender"? And yet, pedophiles never get better. And yet, we live with an Administration whose hallmark has been misleading information. In any case, I would like to know what all of you think of this ( links: family )
![]() To be honest, I'm a little concerned. Privacy. The ability to rebuild a productive life. Just because *most* sex offenders commit another crime doesn't make it right to make rebuilding a normal life any more difficult for someone who's done their time and truly intends to do the best they can. I haven't read or seen any real numbers on convicted offenders trying to rebuild a life. All I have is anecdotal data, and not enough of that to make any generalizations. But I could easily see people losing or not getting jobs over this. Being denied loans and access to services. Like you, I think that this could lead to Vigilantism, perhaps unjustly. If, later on, evidence proves that Person A was not guilty of the offense that they were arrested and charged with, who is responsible for getting their name off of the registry? I could easily see this being like a credit report, where you are the only person responsible for making sure that your name is clear. Similarly, what if "Joe B. Smith" is on the registry as a repeat offender? Will that affect Joe M. Smith's chances at livlihood any? The election scandal in 2000, where reportedly the names of ex-cons from other states were striken from the voter rolls in Florida, even though pertinant details were mismatched - including race and age, which should have been easy to match. While I think that there needs to be some means to prevent multiple offenses, I question the wisdom of this being the means. (0)
![]() This is a way of the criminal justice system saying, "Here you are, you deal with him!" People en masse generally don't deal with outcasts of any stripe well. If recidivism is the problem, then we need better sentencing and rehab, not a hit list for vigilantes. What good is knowing the guy's address anyway? It seems to me that anyone could be a molester. The list could be important for teacher and child care background checks. But what use is people knowing that that strange guy "Joe" on 23rd street has a rap sheet? "Bill," the guy next door, to him could be much worse. Do we automatically trust Bill because he's not on the list? I sure wouldn't. I've always wondered how rapists and molesters could get less time than a drug addict, anyway. Smoke a joint, get 10 years. Molest a child, 3 years. It makes no sense. (1)
![]() for *other* serious crimes.... is this a "gateway drug" to a national registry of murderers? People convicted of manslaughter? DUIIs? I don't want to get into a "murder is more serious than rape" arguement, but I think people want to be protected from folks who've committed these other crimes just as much... (0)
![]() For every sex offender on the registry, there are countless others who haven't made the registry yet (not convicted), or haven't been caught yet. I hope people don't get a false sense of security. Just because a person isn't on the list, doesn't mean they're not an offender. (0)
![]() I've yet to see any credible numbers that "most" recommit. I remember learning when I was a kid that "most" people who TRY heroin become addicts. Turns out the addiction rate is about 25%, I found out later, hardly "most". A 20 year old boy caught in bed w/ his 17-year-old girlfriend by parents who disapprove becomes a "child rapist" under these sorts of things. No one looks at the nuances involved, especially in these days of strict law-and-order, throw-away-the-key mentality. We have one of the largest prison industries in the world per capita. These sorts of lists lead to tragedies like this: When a sex offender lives next door
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There is a difference between a predator w/ a paraphilia and someone like Claxton. The reason we have judges and case law and a legal system is to be able to adjust to individual circumstances. It frightens me that we have returned to "scarlet letters" and rigid legalistic structures built around endless punishment. (0)
![]() the highest rate is half, though. I'm troubled that this information is used to encourage the kind of witch hunts that it seems to cause. When I read about that disabled man's suicide, I cried. I had done some reading for a paper years ago, for health class. I got assigned writing about how the "developmentally challenged" were treated. I was horrified when, in the course of my reading, I stumbled across the various ways "slow" people were treated when they matured sexually, so that's what I wrote about (my teacher was NOT amused). That's what his story reminded me of. We are such a harsh people. We punish, but don't treat. We have a brutal prison system that does little to make criminals able to rejoin society. It's just such a horrible issue, on all sides of it. (0)
![]() in the same way that all gore invented the internets. by that i mean that i was a member of a small group of women who, side by side with many other small groups of women and men across the country, took it upon ourselves back in the 1980s to notify our neighbors about sexual predators in their midst. imagine this: you are 25 years old. you go home to visit your old neighborhood, and you see the guy that raped you 15 years prior. he's sitting on his front stoop, talking to neighbors, and watching their children playing in his front yard. what do you do? you can call the police, and report this guy. tried that, and was told the statute of limitations had passed and they couldn't do anything to protect kids now until he has actually done something. you call a lawyer and try to sue the guy. not because you care about the money but because its the only way left to force this guy into any kind of accountability. if you're lucky, the civil statute of limitations hasn't expired. but what about all those kids? what about the parents that don't know. so, you go home, make up a flyer, and start handing out door to door in your old neighborhood. beware of john doe. don't let your kids near him. he likes pre-pubescent girls in particular. and so we (me and many thousands of other women and men) did just that. handed out flyers. tried to protect the children. because nobody else was. and we were told then that what we were doing was wrong, that we were branding these guys with scarlet letters. and we responded, "we don't care." we have a right to speak our truth. we have a right to say what happened to us and who did it. but frankly, the local police didn't like us going around identifying known sex offenders. they were getting phone calls they didn't know how to deal with. "is this true?" "why aren't you doing something about this?" "how can this guy be allowed to hang out at the neighborhood playground?" not to mention the problems that ensued when abusers who were never charged with their crimes denied what they had done. they were innocent they claimed. there was no proof. it was just delusions of some crazy woman. so the system (by that i mean the police, local politicians, etc) offered an alternative. a statewide sex offender registry. at least that way, those being outed as sex offenders were proven to be such by a court of law. and so it began. whatever your concerns about statewide or national sex offender registries, i need to ask you this: what would you have done, when you saw a guy who raped you at age 10, who showed you kiddy porn, who forced you to perform in kiddy porn, who forced you to play russian roullette with a loaded handgun while he jerked off, who threatened to kill your sister if you ever told anyone... what would you do, when you saw him sitting on his stoop watching the neighbors kids play in his front yard? (1)
![]() Personally I probably would have done what you did. As it is, I've often imagined what I'd say, what I'd do, if I ever ran into the neighbor boys who thought a five-year-old should appreciate their "manhood." As a matter of social policy and criminal justice, I think the lists are an awful solution in that it doesn't solve anything. The molesters and rapists are still out there, out on too-short sentences for crimes that are not fully appreciated for the depth of harm they do to the victims. (1)
![]() I'm the sister of a convicted sex offender. The crime he committed not only affected his victim's life, but his own and mine and my daughters. (I initially wrote the word "ruined" in place of "affected" but I have to be honest and say that 13 years later, even though it's been hell, my daughter and I are basically in one piece. I don't know about the victim's life, because after my brother's conviction her family decided that I was just as much to blame as he was, and therefore ended our friendship.) I can see first-hand the results of lots of therapy with my brother. He's never re-offended. He's tried his damndest to be compliant with many probation rules, which seem to change even faster than the weather in Wisconsin. He's offered to be chemically castrated, even physically castrated, if that's what it takes. He paid for his victim's therapy. He paid for my therapy, and for my daughter's therapy, since we were living with him when the crime took place. He paid all court costs and spent a lot of time in prison and is on the registry. So this isn't an easy issue for me. I hate child molesters, but I love my brother. I see more clearly than anybody else that he is more than just that creep who molested that girl 13 years ago. We were having a discussion a year ago about how there is no death penalty here in Wisconsin, so instead of putting sex offenders to death the good people of Wisconsin will just hound them into committing suicide, thereby taking care of the whole problem. And in case anybody is going to try to say that I'm an apologist for sex offenders, nothing could be further from the truth. I'm a survivor myself, and I know what the victim went through. I'm just saying that making all sex offenders the "other" that we can easily hate is hard for those of use who don't think of them as other, but as brother, father, sister, mother, or friends. We are stuck in this terrible conundrum of hating their actions, but still loving them. (1)
![]() what an incredible story. thank you for sharing it. i can't imagine how difficult this has been for you. speaking from strictly a victims perspective, its easy to say "lock them up and throw away the key." but for family members of an offender, life is much more complicated. i don't know that this changes where i stand on long sentences for offenders, but i certainly feel empathy for you and your daughter. i'm glad your brother has worked hard to take responsibility for his actions and is trying to rehabilitate himself. i wish him all the success in the world in that regard. (1)
Or lying if they sought help from a predator. Certainly in the 50's and 60's people would look the other way. I think what you did was great. I just think we might have gotten carried away. I was driving to work and there was an Amber Alert announced and of course I'm filled with adrenaline and looking around at the other commuters. It seemed to me as though other commuters were also looking around angrily also. And then I had this epiphany...what if we found him. I mean honestly. I would be nasty, and yet lives have been saved. (1)
![]() i'm not suggesting that the sex offender registry as implemented is the be all and end all. my point in telling my story is to give people some background as to how it developped. it developped in reaction to the inability of many victims to press criminal charges, in reaction to short statutes of limitations, unbelieving juries, uninterested police and district attorneys, and very light or non existent prison sentences upon conviction in many cases. i agree that there needs to be more subtlety in the registries at this point, to weed out the cases of 18 year olds having consensual sex with 15 year olds for example. and i think the way to deal with serious sexual predators is not to create registries for when they get out of prison, but to keep them in prison. period. twenty years later, i do think its appropriate to re-examine the registry. and i do think that longer prison sentences, rather than registries, are the ultimate answer. Murder doesn't carry such high sentences because of likelihood of re-offending. Many murderers would never kill again either. It carries such long sentences to say to society that this crime is the most serious offense you can commit against a person. imho, many sex offenses fall into this category too. i'm inclined to go on here about crime and punishment, but it probably should go into a separate blog if i decide to get into it. my only point here, longwinded as i am on this subject, is to say that i'm in favor of re-examining sex offender registries within the context of the data we now have and various tools we now have available for dealing with offenders. (1)
![]() To be honest, I don't know what I would do in that situation. But I do think it would be a very sad thing if, in the intervening 10 years, he had been to counseling, gotten treatment and cleaned up his act.... only to ultimately be told that it didn't matter, he was guilty once, he would always be guilty. I guess not having been there, I still believe the best out of people. Still optimistic about human intentions as a whole. (0)
![]() but at the same time, i don't know that changing one's behavior necessarily releases them from the consequences of prior bad acts. imo, having violated the public trust, it's his responsibility to convince society that he's changed, not my responsibility to keep his secret. (1)
![]() IMHO, society then has an obligation to give him a chance to try and convince them that he's changed.... I don't know all of the details about this situation, but in general, it's pretty likely that no-one would listen as they're running the guy out of town on a rail. Doesn't give anyone any motivation to change themselves, if they're marked for life. And that's really what I meant by privacy. As it stands now, once he's done his time, sure his record is still available, but that same record doesn't keep tabs on him - it's not constantly updated with current address the way a registry would be in order to be effective. I have no sympathy for the offense that these guys perform; I do have some for how difficult it is to be convicted of an offense, perform ones obligation to society, and try to build a life afterwards. We had a guy where I worked who violated his parole for a non-sex offense, and had to spend a couple of years in prison. All in all, as far as we knew, decent guy, good worker. When he was released, company wouldn't hire him back because he'd been in prison. Company lost a good worker, he had to struggle a little harder to find a place to work because of a stigma. Maybe just the way it is, but I refuse to say it's right... (0)
![]() just as an aside. there is no right to privacy when it comes to a person's criminal record. criminal records are public knowledge. before technology, you had to go to the courthouse to get the info. or look it up on microfilm of the local newspaper at the library. just as the tax assessment on your house is now available on the internet, technology is making criminal records more accessible to the average person. i'm not sure that's a bad thing. i don't think you should have to go physically to a courthouse to get information that isn't private to begin with. if someone wants or needs to keep their criminal record private, they can ask the court to have their record sealed. the court then decides if its in the public interest to do so. so its a mistake to think that other kinds of criminal records are private. they aren't. and they too, eventually, will be available on the internet. (1)
Hello, I have to concur with some of the other posters here, particularly on the selectivity issue. There's the "just under/just over" problem, where a slight difference in age gets classified as an offence. There's also distinguishing between different kinds of sex crimes and situations. (0)
Having a national register is fine and state registries state that information shall not be used in harassment. That is something that won't happen. There is the second set of victims. They get no sypmpathy nor do they get support. They are the children, parents, and loved ones of the offender. To have the name bandied over and over hurts them no end. The touchy-feely offender, who gets good treatment and constant monitoring, may never re-offend. The violent psycho will probably re-offend. I think lifetime parole, electronic monitoring, and a good cognition program will control the touchy-feely. Nothing controls the psycho. He should get life in prison. If for some reason, he is let out, he should have a gps welded on his ankle. The most dangerous ones are the ones who move from state to state and don't get caught. You won't know who they are and when they will come through your town. (0)
Well, I am a sex offender. I came across this board, and well, I thought I might shed some insight. I am not going to go into what happened with me, either one, some might believe me, most just won't. At any rate, my conviction was 13 years ago and that is not why I am here. I am here to tell you of the things that have conflicted in my life from having to register. First, It's next to impossible to find a place to live, many times I have had to stay in missions, and most of them won't take me. One I got told I couldn't from a all male mission and got beat up by 3 staff members a few blocks away. That's not the only time I got beat up. Jobs, when you find them, get away with enslaving you. And when you get tired of it, they splash around to everyone you are a BABY RAPPER. Friends...Well do you just go up to someone and say "HI I am a sex offender"? or wait till they see the real you and hope they don't stumble across your picture on the sex offender site. When you do tell them about yourself, some say they understand and slowly drift away, some just are appauled and never speak to you again, but a very small percent actually understand and believe. I wish a lot of people could experience this then maybe they wouldn't take advantage of their loved ones and friends. Relationships? Well for 12 years I thought I just would never find love...Most girls when I do tell them either use me for money or run scared.....But finally, after so many nights of prayer, GOD brought me my angel....Thank you god for her. I could go on, but you will never really understand...I think this is a good law though, but needs revision...I am really here to hopefully persuade you that some change needs to happen. My final thought for you. There was a 18 year old boy, who "Mooned" the football team on court at the Homecoming game. A A**HOLE Cop, arrested him for Indecent Exposure, well after 8 months he got out of jail and had to register in his new neighborhood, and it showed up only as that "Indecent Exposure". 4 months later he got jumped by 3 kids in his area. He died on the way to the hospital of internal bleeding. The 3 boys got 2 years in Jail and 5 yrs Probation. Just really, were do we draw the line.... You vote for judges to make proper sentencing....There really should be no need for this...If the judges did thier jobs. Just think about it. (1)
Im considered a sex affender for somthing that happened back in 1984- Indecant exposure. (1)
I am a victim of sexual abuse. I would like things to be the way they were before this incident happened to me, too. I've also "paid my time," since I was a victim over thirty years ago. Yet, I am discriminated against in society because no one really understands exactly how this has affected me and my ability to have a "normal life." Although this abuse happened when I was young, I am now fifty and am STILL in expensive counseling because of the emotional scars this act embedded in my young psyche. I can't maintain relationships, either. I am hunted and chased by my own recurring thoughts, the intense anger, and tears of depression which have crippled me for life. Sometimes, I can't even get out of bed for days because I no longer feel safe enough to face the world, even in my own home. (Did I mention this incident happened over 30 years ago?) Oh yes, I may have brief momments of "good times"...times when I think I'm finally getting it together, but then something simple, like a simple memory or just seeing this person's name in print, can send me right back into counseling. I've come to the realization that THIS is a Life Sentence for me, without any chance of parole. I will never have the "freedoms" that other people have, most especially, the freedom to love and be loved. Sometimes I just lay in bed and wish I were dead. This is just a glimpse into the "unfair hell" that I live in. But please note the difference between us: I DID NOT MAKE THE CHOICE TO DO THIS TO MYSELF. In fact, I had absolutely no control in the situation. Someone like YOU made this choice for me by gratifying your own lust and twisted desire. And that makes all the difference between you and I, and between "feeling sorry" for a REAL victim and feeling sorry for you. You gave up your "rights" when you stole someone else's, so don't whine about how you "paid the price" because you "did your time." What you stole from your victim can never be restored. (1)
Boy, I don't know where to begin, but I will try to keep it nice. I am a registered sex offender, and I know you have heard it before, but I am INNOCENT. I met a girl in an 18 and over nightclub when I was 21 - Her ID showed 19. We went out for a few weeks, I would hang out at her mom's house during the day with her, and well eventually it led to sex. Come to find out, she was using her older sister's ID and she was only 16. You know when I found out? The day the detective arrested me while walking in the mall. I was an idiot kid that listened to the only attorney I could afford and he talked me into taking a plea agreement to avoid jail time and just 2 years probation. Little did I know four years after probation ended, I got screwed and was forced to register. NOTHING! Not a chance in hell that the Governor was going to grant a sex offender a pardon... Not even with the truth out of the bag. I realized one thing through all this though - America is NOT the country our forefather's founded or dreamt of. That country is merely a memory in many dead soldier's minds. It's that very reason that I plan on doing to my country what they did to me... turn my back and run. I am moving to Europe later this fall and couldn't be happier about it all. I will soon be a citizen of another country and hopefully my boys and I will find something similar to happiness. (1)
I need to say one more thing...... When I saw this post, I can't describe the feeling I got. I just can't describe the feeling of understanding, the feeling of walls being over come. How you, some of you victims, can even see what is going on....How something HAS to finally come to change. I think with minds like yours, something can come to a resolution soon. I guess I am saying thanks.........If it means anything. (1)
![]() I'm sorry for your difficulties. I am a survivor the sexual molestation by family members. I didn't confront the issues until I was 23, long past time to bring charges had I wanted. While I haven't come to a place of healing with them as of yet, my husband makes matters worse by insisting that I somehow make them pay, emotionally mostly. I can't, it's not my nature; I imagen the humiliation you feel is what my husband wishes on my molestors. I wish you the best in your path to healing, highest and best, because this is what I would wish to my family members, too, despite everything. (1)
Our community has about 12 registered sex offenders in the zip code. One of the offenders is a level 3, two are level 2 and the remainder are level 1 sex offenders. I've kept up to date with each of the announcements sent home by our school district and I have not over reacted to these announcements. Information on the nature of their crimes is readily available. Considering the age(s) of victims, the element of violence/non-violence, etc. I believe I've exercised reasonable caution and have not, to date, over reacted. But this week... I'm still in shock from learning that a Level 2 sex offender, with designation as a Violent Offender, is living in his father's house directly across the street from me. I have a 13 year old daughter and a 4 year old son. My 13 year old gets on the school bus directly in front of his house (and our house) and she's home alone for 2 hours everyday after school. She will be home alone during the summer since she's too young to work and too old for day camps. Here's what I learned from the state and national sex offender registry sites: he was convicted of repeated sexual abuse of a 5 year old girl: he has many conditions stipulated in his release (treatment for alcohol/drug abuse, no alcohol or other substances, no sexual enhancement drugs, anti-violence therapy, sex offender therapy, no contact with children under the age of 18, no contact with the victim, find and maintain employment,... the list goes on). I've contacted the state sex offender registry office as well as the local police department. They've advised that this man is so far meeting the requirements of his parole (January 2007 he was paroled). There is nothing I can do except watch him constantly and report any suspicious activity. It's unacceptable to me that THIS offender, with THESE conditions and THESE circumstances of his crime should be living within 100 feet of my children. I'm essentially a liberal passivist, I don't bud into other peoples lives and I try not to pass judgement...but here's the rub - the more I know about this man the more it transforms me and I can't help the way I feel. It is in fact a primal reaction - I want him away from my children and my home. (1)
In all fairness, different states have different rules governing how they report and list sexual offenders. In my state, only recently has the state police and justice department decided to update their website to include photos and type of offense. I think that this is important as the community must be able to protect themselves from persons potentially dangerous. There are states with very detailed information (Illinois) easily available online and some states (washington, oregon) that still don't list offenders at all, apparently making the citizens do the necessary legwork to find out who is in their community. First off, as a victim of sexual abuse and manipulation years ago I can't tell you the surprise in doing a search for an someone from time back to find them listed in a state for having abused an 11 year old girl! This person had used me when I was a young teenager. It brought home for me the reality of the 'relationship' I had with this person in my young mind! Also, with the latest updates here in NH, I have seen former co-workers listed, which also brings home the fact that a sexual offender can be anyone. Unfortunately, I am also aware of people who slip through the cracks, abscond from registration and because of poor follow through with local police departments, successfully elude officials and dupe the community for quite awhile and with a great deal of ease. Someone who is leaning toward sociopathy is very unlikely to care a lot about the potential consequences of not registering weighted against the short lived freedom that enables them to satisfy their worst impulses. Registration of sex offenders is a feminist issue, as registration gives the victim a more important role and also allows others to protect potential victims like never before. As woman are primarily the victims in sexual assault and men primarily the offenders, the benefits of due process for victims and strict enforcement of after release stipulations fall to women. This is of course assuming all rules for procedure are followed after an offender's release and not taking into account the egregious number of failed convictions. Sexual predators have for centuries relied on the access and power imbalance inherent in male/female relationships. This power imbalance also includes the inability to have adequate information to protect oneself and the willingness of those in power to give credence or consideration to the pain caused by perpetrators. The interest of the perpetrator (the man) always predicated the woman's interest. It is ironic indeed that a social system that traditionally (and still in some respects) aids and abets the predator has turned around the defined the predator of children as now just another potential victim. Some justify this switch as a good 'punishment' but I think it is an effort (albeit not always conscious) to alienate the predator from the social system in order to deny that the social system itself creates the predator. This observation of course seems proved when the self identified 'macho' protector types -- the gatekeepers of the patriarchy -- mimic in their actions the very predation they claim to abhor. So, we have a conflict. The very construct that created the predator now abandons the predator and turns him/her into prey. Yes, it is unjust. It is unjust in the same way that no woman can sleep in home alone at night without wondering if someone will crawl through the window and tie her up in her bed and slit her throat or worse. It is unjust in the same way that a girl, from about 5 years old and on is considered free game, with that justification becoming more and more socially acceptable as she enters puberty and beyond. I am sorry that you are preyed upon, but unfortunately, until this social system overhauls its values to not celebrate the primitive rites of conquest and hierarchical power defined by gender, I don't think the courts or legislatures can formulate a solution that will alleviate your problem. No more than a woman could ever force the legislature or judges to assure her that she need not worry if her car breaks down on the highway in the middle of the night or if her teenage daughter has a new 'mystery' boyfriend that won't show himself to anyone. (1)
![]() I just wanted to say thank you to all who have posted on this site. You see i am a 33 year old man who made a grave mistake when i was 19.I was convicted of statutory rape. A day doesn't go by that i wish i could take it back. The time i did in prison doesn't compare to the adversities that i have to deal with day to day. I can not get a good job. I had to quit college because they found out and told me that i better leave. That whatever education i get will be worthless. I have lost my children over my past yet i haven't given up hope. The registry will only provide fear for parents, and vigilanty justice for others. There are people like me who have made mistakes with no intention of malice to others. Yet there is nowhere to get help for when they are finished paying their debt to society. We throw them back on the streets and say bye. Then they want to complicate it more by telling everyone who they are and what they have done. It's easy for them to become discourage and angry. They sometimes end up back in prison because they feel so helpless to do anything. I came across this blog site myself looking for something, anthing that would help me cope with the recent rejection of yet another great job lost because of my past. To read your comments remimded not to give up, that not everyone believes that you are worthless because of a "SEX OFFENDER" stamp on your back. So thank you all again for lifting the heart and spirit of a fallen but not down man. Judge not,that ye be not judged. For with what judgement ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. MATTHEW 6:7 1-2 (1)
We have 6 registered sex offenders living on our apartments. It's easy to find out who they are because people talk, stuff happens. I approach them personally and calmly explain that I have a crazy ex-husband and work for a lawyer. Works everytime. They don't deserve rights (1)
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